Are you tired of being alone? Are you looking for love?
You are not alone; this is something almost all of us have gone through.
You deserve find love.
Follow these 9 tips that will work wonders for manifesting love in your life.
Table Of Contents
- #1. Love yourself first
- #2. Believe you deserve love
- #3. Surround yourself with love
- #4. Be grateful for the love you have
- #5. Decide what you really want
- #6. Manifest from a place of love
- #7. Make a dream board or vision board
- #8. Take care of your physical health and well-being
- #9 Visualize More Love In Your Life
#1. Love yourself first
Sometimes in life, we need to shift our focus from other people to ourselves.
We need to learn to love, rely on, and accept ourselves—the way we are right now.
Sometimes our deepest pain is hidden because we always put other’s needs before our own.
The key to finding love is loving yourself.
I know, I know...
The phrases “love yourself”, or “you are enough” make us cringe inside because they sound cliché.
They’re mentioned all over social media posts and self-help articles as a way to uplift people and inspire them to feel better about themselves — but it can often just come across as condescending clap-trap.
You don’t need someone else to tell you that you are enough, you already know that!
And if you don't know that... Know that you deserve that.
You deserve to love yourself.
Because everyone does.
And that includes you.
#2. Believe you deserve love
You deserve to feel like a priority in someone's life.
You were meant to feel special and valued.
And I know that you can find someone who will support your dreams and ambitions, no matter what they are.
Someone who will make time for you, put you first and communicate openly with you at every step of the way.
But what's actually important:
Do you know that?
Because it's true.
Yes, I totally believe you deserve love.
I believe you deserve to receive love just the same as everyone else.
Love is a fundamental human need that everyone is entitled to.
Everyone should be shown love throughout their lives so they can grow into the best version of themselves.
Whether it’s from their parents, grandparents, siblings, friends, pets, teachers or people they meet along the way - no one should feel alone and unloved.
You deserve love.
Not because you're a nice person, or because you have talent, or even because you work hard.
You deserve love simply for existing.
And you are loved.
#3. Surround yourself with love
It is a blessing, sometimes not easily recognizable, to be loved deeply by someone.
Regardless of your circumstances, good or bad, it is important to always be surrounded with love.
It will help get you through the rough days.
The love of others will empower you to make changes and support you when you need it most.
From your family and friends to the world of leisure, there are a lot of variables in our life.
One thing that needs to be worked on is our relationships.
This can come in many forms – professional, personal or romantic.
In order to live an optimal life, you need an optimal balance between work and fun.
You need to be surrounded by love.
#4. Be grateful for the love you have
Sometimes it’s hard to see the good in our lives.
We all have bad things happen to us and moments we wish we could go back and change.
But be grateful for what you have.
What you had.
What you will have.
Who you are - who you aren't.
Be grateful for it all.
When we are not in touch with our feelings, it's next to impossible to see that everything comes and goes; nothing remains the same.
A gratitude journal can do far more than make you feel good about yourself.
A journal is great reminder to not take life for granted.
Sometimes we need a reminder to take time to think about what really matters in life.
#5. Decide what you really want
Decide what you really want.
This is an essential first step to realizing your goals.
That means putting away the distractions and concentrating on what is most important to you.
This goes against the grain for many of us, but that's what makes it so powerful.
Though it may seem counterintuitive, deciding what you really want will help you be more efficient, deliberate, and strategic in moving forward.
Do you want a relationship?
Do you want to get married?
Do you just want a friend to talk to?
What kind of love do you want?
Finding clarity in this area can help you manifest love more successfully.
#6. Manifest from a place of love
We lead with our beliefs and emotions, not logic.
We don't think about how we feel, we just feel it.
So why not create from this space of knowingness and truth?
Why not create from a place of love and well being?
Energy follows intention, so let's focus on the good stuff.
Feel it, create it, then watch all your dreams manifest from a place of knowing and light.
We can manifest our heart's desire if we state our intention with an attitude of love instead of a place of fear.
If we operate from this place then what we are manifesting is truly for the highest good of the whole.
#7. Make a dream board or vision board
One thing I encourage everyone to do when manifesting love is to make a dream board or a vision board.
It helps you set the stage in your mind for what you want to accomplish.
By doing this, you can help to keep motivated by being reminded of what’s possible and the goals you set forth.
When making a vision board, the most important part is developing a strong foundation.
The more realistic and detailed it is, the easier it will be to keep strictly focused on your goals when you are creating your visual guide.
Life doesn't always turn out exactly the way you envision it to, but by having a vision, a goal or dream board in place, you are more likely to stay on track and reach your goals.
#8. Take care of your physical health and well-being
Here’s the thing about manifesting love:
It works faster if you have a healthy body and mind.
When you feel great physically, you look for ways to feel even better.
You go outside.
You buy flowers that make your home smell incredible.
You call up friends to go to yoga with you.
You talk to the barista at Starbucks.
You create more opportunities to find love.
Plus, nothing is more valuable than life.
Physical health and wellness is a vital part of our lives, so it should be no surprise to you that there is an elemental component to love.
Loving yourself means taking care of your physical health and well-being.
If your health is in good shape, you'll be more attractive and radiate positive energy.
And trust me, your love life will be a helluva better the more you workout.
#9 Visualize More Love In Your Life
Visualization is a technique in the metaphysical field of positive thinking.
It is a method of using your mind to materialize thoughts into reality by creating vivid and exciting images in your mind's eye.
With the right visualization techniques, you can learn to create more love in your life...
There is a scientific explanation behind visualizing more love in your life and it has to do with our brains.
Our brain can not tell the difference between what we want and what is happening.
That means when you want something, the release of certain chemicals changes your mood, your outlook on life and your confidence in achieving your goal.
Within 2 seconds of visualizing love and happiness, the right prefrontal cortex lights up with energy.
It's as though love is a neurological pathway that gets stronger the more you use it.
If you read the article, go through the steps and maintain positive vibe, then you will manifest love.
The process is easy and straightforward.
Make sure you follow the instructions to the letter to achieve results quickly.
Congratulations - you have learned how to manifest love.
Now get out there and find it!